Confrontation, to Avoid or not to Avoid

Sometime, people have different vision, opinion or ideas in some matter. These differences can make people get involved into a confrontation. There are some people who avoid confrontation at all cost, while other people seem to seek them out. People have different reasons for their decision to avoid or to seek it.
The first reason, some people feel uncomfortable to get involved into a confrontation, while other people feel
uncomfortable if they do not say what they have in mind. Some people think that it’s ok not to say what they have in mind because they think that’s not the right time to say their ideas or they not confident to say it. Other people, in the other hand, feel uncomfortable if they do not say what they have in mind right at the moment.

The other reason, some people think that a confrontation can damage their relationship with the opposite parties, while other people feel uneasy if they have different vision or ideas with their partner. Some people think it’s better to have different ideas or opinion with their partner than to get involved into a confrontation which can damage their relationship. Other people, in the other hand, think it’s not good if their partner have different ideas or vision with them. They want to proof that the opposite parties’ argument is wrong. They also want to make the opposite parties accept their ideas.

Knowing this, there are some tips for you: If you have different vision or ideas about something, you should say what you have in mind. However, if the opposite parties can’t accept your ideas or at least tolerate it, you should end the conversation. You should avoid confrontation because a confrontation never really solves a problem. In addition, there is a possibility that a confrontation can damage the relationship between the parties. Old saying says that silent is gold. You can apply that saying in this situation. We have to understand that everyone might have different opinion, perspective about something. Sometimes we can change people’s perspective, sometimes we can’t. But still, it’s better to avoid confrontation.
   

-ARAS-

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